when i get to the decisions that are hard to make - the things it is hard to decide how i feel about, it is only sensical to fall back hard into the things i am sure about, the things i most definitely, inextricably hold in my heart. like being kind. and loving those we love as we find and love them. like making room for how everyone feels and thinks and is inside of my “normal”. making the people i love feel comfortable, and anyone else who needs it.
and until i have any real clue of what the fuck makes me comfortable, actually, maybe i need to let the things that should go.
